I’ve heard women make the statement, “I love hard”. What does that mean? What prompted this saying? Hearing women say this, I first imagine it’s just a saying for how loyal the woman has been to a man and how deeply she loves in a romantic relationship. However, I can’t …
Read More »20 Reasons Why Women Aren’t Having Sex with Their Husbands
This should come as no shock; we’ve all heard about it and it’s been a big pink elephant in the sanctuary for as long as I can remember. Women aren’t having sex with their husbands. Why? The most obvious answer is the hardest for some men to take in—we simply don’t …
Read More »Are We Brothers and Sisters in Christ Foreal?
There’s a very significant scenario involving Jesus that is sometimes overlooked by us Christians. It’s written in Matthew 12:47-50: “Then one said unto him, Behold, thy mother and thy brethren stand without, desiring to speak with thee. But he answered and said unto him that told him, Who is my …
Read More »Befriend People Without an Agenda
There are some Christians who date those who aren’t with the hope that their partner becomes a Christian. This is called “missionary dating”. While there are many ways to show how unwise this is, there’s a lesser known type of missionary relationship that devalues the nature of that commitment, as well. I …
Read More »Why Do We Choose the Bad Boy?
Lets cut straight to it. The bad boy is exciting because they have an alpha male personality, throw around money, look good, cater to the lusts of the flesh, lust of the eyes and the pride of life. That’s why we like them (although I don’t say that proudly). They stand out as …
Read More »Don’t Let ‘Meme Theology’ Rob You of Having Healthy Relationships
With the rise of meme-empowered social media, we now have an onslaught of hundreds of memes crossing our paths on a weekly basis. They range from hilarious, vain, ratchet, dismal, informative, inspirational, and everything else in between. Amongst these various memes, we are bombarded with many that present hard-hitting biblical …
Read More »The Value of Having a Man’s Trust
One of the most precious and honorable things a woman can have care of is her husband’s heart that trusts in her. And a man who trusts in his wife should see good as a fruit of his trust, not pain. This means the man must choose carefully who he places his …
Read More »Parenthood: How to Raise Children Without Damaging Them
Parenthood is extremely challenging. It exposes who people are when they think no one else is watching. Some parents and guardians may forget that children are always perceiving them from angles they may have never imagined about themselves—good and bad. Quite often, children suffer many hurts and become damaged due to the sins and …
Read More »Warning Signs You May Be Drifting from God
My God why have you forsaken me! – Matthew 27:46 We often blame God for our misfortunes, but in reality, we are often to blame. That’s right! I am guilty of being a knucklehead as well. It is during these times I feel the most separated from God and foolishly …
Read More »The Harsh Truth About Men Who Won’t Meet Your Father
Not only is it an old school tradition to bring the guy who is interested in you to meet your father before you engage in a relationship with him, but it’s also a Biblical one. In scripture, men were not allowed to pursue the women they wanted unless her father gave …
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