Has heartbreak put you off to new dating experiences? Or have you found yourself in a committed relationship facing issues you thought you’d never have to face with this partner because you thought you knew him?
Sis, if you’re thinking your love radar is broken, it’s not. It just needs to be recalibrated.
It’s a distinctive experience when we’re attracted to someone’s personality. How they present themselves to the world can be so alluring that sometimes that’s all we feel it takes. This leaves us vulnerable to a lot of drama in the future because we never thoroughly vetted this charismatic man for his character!
Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding!
That’s right sis, skipping over a man’s moral qualifications is one of the easiest things for us to do because it’s not a superficial investigation that we can do with our five senses alone. It doesn’t have to take long, but it does usually take more time than some of us are used to and that’s why it’s the one huge reason you’ve been taking losses out here consistently.
To learn more about how to reset your standard from charisma to character, watch my video below.
I’d love to hear from you on the surprises you’ve had in your relationships. Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.